Archive for November, 2010

lessons from a snow day

Nov 24, 2010

DSCF0670Snow Day. Watching the news last night, you would think those two words are synonymous with "Horrific Nightmare." But I’m a father of an 8-year-old, a 6-year-old, and a 2-year-old. So, in our family, the words "snow day" are much more in line with "ultimate joy and the reason to initiate wild and crazy outdoor zaniness!"

Our Snow Day started last night. Kids from across the street came over and played in the backyard. Turns out jumping on a trampoline covered in snow is pretty entertaining for the jumpers – as well as the people watching kids and snow fly through air. A fire was built in the backyard fire pit. The Snow Café was opened with raspberry snow cones as the popular menu item. Grandpa came over. Aunts, uncles, and cousins ate dinner together. Neighbors chatted in the yard. Bedtime came significantly later than usual.

The morning arrived and the kids were outside before I even had breakfast made. More time with the neighborhood kids. Sledding down the 300′ slope behind the City Church reminded me that you’ve never witnessed pure joy until you’ve seen the smile on the face of a 6-year-old boy flying down a hill on a sled. Dads pushed sleds…and pulled sleds!

And then she said it. I can’t get it out of my head. A car drove by, we waived and smiled, they waived and smiled, and then one of the 5th Grade neighbor girls said it. "Everyone is so happy and nice on a snow day." She’s right. Everyone was so relaxed. People were walking their dogs…and smiling. Sledding…and smiling. Driving (slowly)…and smiling. Chatting…and smiling.

It wasn’t until I was walking down my street to grab some lunch that it hit me. A Snow Day is when everyone is forced to take a sabbath rest. We walk instead of work. We talk instead of toil. We play instead of produce. And we smile. Because we need it.

God knew we needed to slow down, rest, chat, and play. I guess that’s why He talks about the Sabbath more than 150 times in the Bible. He knew we needed a regular Snow Day. A day when we realize that everything doesn’t depend on how much you and I produce. In fact, I was reminded today that a day when I don’t "produce" anything is actually one of the most relationally productive days of all!

Happy Snow Day everyone. And Happy Thanksgiving.

PS. After writing this article, we went back outside and chatted with more neighbors. I decided to make a kettle of spaghetti sauce and we invited five families over for dinner. Everyone came. Moms. Dads. Kids. Everyone. If we tried to get all six families together we would have had to plan for several months down the road. But with the beauty of a forced Sabbath, 22 people ate, laughed, talked, and played…together.

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my competition is getting younger

Nov 19, 2010

I guess I better lay this out there: I might not have a storytelling career much longer. Four different people have sent me this video in the last three days.

The story of Jonah from Corinth Baptist Church on Vimeo.

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sermon on the mount dvd at the printer!

Nov 11, 2010

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This has been a good week. Got some writing done. Saw the next draft of my new book’s cover. Kari is home from vacation with her mom and sisters. (All is right with the Ferrin Five again.) And my first DVD got the “go ahead” and is being duplicated right now. Yes…it’s been a good week.

Here is a 2-minute clip from the DVD…

You can read more by clicking here.

Or if you know you want one right away, I’m offering a pre-order special through the end of the month. Buy the DVD now for $15 and as soon as we get it (no later than Dec. 1st I’m told) we’ll ship it to you with no extra for tax or S&H! Just click the big picture at the top of this post and it’ll take you right to the store.

There is no limit to the number of DVDs/orders for this special so feel free to share this, tweet this, blog about it, or post the special (and the promo video for that matter) on Facebook.

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the intro: vital…yet forgotten

Nov 5, 2010

I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. This guy had a fantastic story to tell. He had a strong – and much-needed – message to deliver. He had a room full of people who wanted to hear what he had to say. In fact, they’d taken times away from their jobs and families to gather together – hundreds of them!

And he blew it. Why? Because he put no thought into his intro. At least it didn’t feel like he did. He was looking down and shuffling through his papers as he made the customary comments. Thanks for inviting me. It’s an honor to be here. I want to talk about. Blah. Blah. Blah.

I was asleep before he got to any of his content. And as I said in the first paragraph: He has a great story. He has a message. I wanted to hear what he had to say. And he lost me.

I could go on for pages about intros (and maybe I will in a later post) but for today, let me give you three quick rules when creating your intro:

  1. Get on with it. Start with something that grabs people. Don’t meander through your first five or six sentences. It can be a quote, a story, a video clip, or even a simple photo – but jump right in.
  2. Make it about your audience. Your intro isn’t about you. Your intro is when your audience decides whether they want to sit through the rest of what you have to say. You don’t need to say the words “here is what’s in it for you” but you better answer that question – because they’re asking it!
  3. Memorize it. Don’t look at your notes for the first three minutes of your speech/meeting/presentation. Engage with your audience. Look at people. Know what your going to say and then say it. Memorizing your intro will build confidence in your audience that you actually know what you’re talking about.

What are some of the best – and worst – intros you’ve seen?

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sharing Christ with your ears

Nov 2, 2010

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I was at an interesting event this morning. It was a panel discussion on sharing our faith in everyday life. Truthfully, most of it was stuff I’d heard before. That said, there were two things that really stuck out to me, both along the same lines. The first was something said by Jim Henderson – founder of Off The Map . Here’s what he said,

“Instead of just telling people about Jesus, how about putting something in your mouth and doing evangelism with your ears.”

Lovely. I’ve also heard it put this way. God gave us two ears and one mouth. Take the hint. 

The other nugget for the morning came from Monty Hipp – founder and president of The C4 Group . He shared the process he goes through to try to live this principle out in his life. He talked about growing up in the Midwest where an “F5” was a tornado of powerful force. He has taken the F5 concept and says that a powerful force in building relationships and showing people the love of Christ is to ask them about these five areas of their lives:

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    1. Tell me about what you do for fun.
    2. Tell me about your family.
    3. Tell me about your friends.
    4. Tell me about what you’re focusing on right now.
    5. Tell me about what you see for your future.

What would happen if we actually asked people about these five areas of their life and then did something crazy…we listened? Gotta say I think it would be life-changing.

Image: Yaron Jeroen van Oostrom / FreeDigitalPhotos.net

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